advokasi & pengalaman [advocacy & experience]

from top left, clockwise, alphabetically – these are areas i have lived through, continue to live with, trained in, advocate for, passionate in and that empower me to rebirth relove… to be all of me

if you need/want support in these areas, i am here to listen and co-create with you.

tiga perkhidmatan [three services]

sessions

we start our journey with a free 15 minute exploratory video call – to ask and answer any questions that you have, see if i can support you and affirm if we have a healthy and safe dynamic.

if we decide to continue, our sessions will be 60 minutes and if ever needed, we could have longer sessions.

our sessions can be face-to face or online. I have access to a couple of conducive spaces and if you would like to go for a walk, swing on swings, bird watch while sharing about life or have me around to support you during a difficult situation, i am there.

for fellow recovering agoraphobics, i am willing to travel to you (within singapura).

 

mutual aid

if you are abundantly resourced and would like to give back to our saudara-mara [relatives] in need, please pay it forward during checkout. every little bit counts.

once every $40 is reached, a community member will get a 60 minute session with me or the monies given to them – whichever is a more pressing need. funds will be transparent on the page and if you’d prefer to remain anonymous, please let me know.

if by the end of each year, we have excess funds, we can discuss which charity or saudara [relative] in need is to receive this aid.

*** this fund is for you if you are systematically marginalized, racialized and oppressed;

– an adoption/foster survivor from singapura or, an indigenous/minority woman (including trans sisters) of singapura or a gcide survivor or unhoused or have an incarcerated family member or an act*v*st that is under the b*ot of the st*te.

please get in touch if you or someone you know needs this support.

learning

“education is elevation”

– George Lee Jr (@theconsciouslee)

education is a BIG and VAST topic for me… i love learning!

Earliest learning starts with my ancestors and imprinting in the womb… Severance happening and being raised by boomers, plopped in front of the tv, my lil self absorbing everything, reading dictionaries & encyclopedias, bookworm club, learning by observation, trauma in family systems, in formal institutes of education, in religiosity…

my own bcotting of graduation and current critique of institutions of “higher learning”. the role of community education, co-creation… learning truth, real histories (not the ones written by colonizers and settlers)… unlearning, reclaiming, reloving indigenous ways/ human ways of learning.

for now, a monthly blog post (every first Friday, starting in June) detailing what i have learned – history, systems, whys and happenings.

akan datang [to come] – decolonial & reindigenizing group workshops and courses.